Often we ask ourselves, does he/she really loves me? Is he/she really loves me.. These are the questions of the heart and only you, know the answers... however these are the indicators to help us understand the answer to our questions of being in love and knowing when someone is in love with us..
When there is question, there is undoutedly an answer. It may not be the answer we are looking for but there is an answer. The key to receiving the answer is being able to accept the truth though it hurts, it hurts because we want things our way, just like we dreamed it up.. Unfortunately like cannot always be the dream we want it to be. Sometimes, maybe most of the time for most of us, life is not the dream we want at all.. not anything close to it. It's important that love does not love anyone, it just loves love. I do not think that you can ever truly make a person love you but certainly you can be everything that person desires. You make cake that someone will love but that love will only last as long as the person is eating the cake. Making someone love you works the same way, once you stop being what the person desires the love is gone... it would be exhausting for you to say the least this is why it is always important to be yourself as it is less work.. Just as you cannot force the flower to grow, you cannot make love grow.. true love, like a flower needs to be natural in order to grow, sure you can pull weeds around a flower as you can pull bad situations from a person but that is not going to make the wild natural flower any prettier.. The wild flower needs weeds to be beautiful, for without it it is just another flower....
